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Posted on Tuesday, February 5, 2008 at 08:42 PM in MyMe
Oh wow! I can’t believe the month of January came and went, just like that! And we’re already in the 2nd week of February 2008, i.e. Sofea's 6th week of primary school, and it’s going to be my 5th month being a sahm.

I met an old friend who asked me how things are going so far.
I might be wrong but somehow I got the impression that she was implying how 'lepak-ed' (relaxed) my current life must be. True, true, I don’t have to deal with office-related matters, on-call support or difficult customers and the likes. But I am still responsible for daily problem-solving(s) and still need to deal with plans going haywire and also deadlines! Sheesh.

I wasn’t offended or anything because I used to have similar thoughts myself, so I just told her that until now, I've never had the chance to feel bored. There’s always something to do, wash, fold, iron, pick up, clean, arrange. So many questions to answer. Siblings fighting over the same crayon. She claims it's hers, and he insisted that siblings must share, no matter what. Then it’s vice versa. She wants to 'help' build the railway tracks her way, even though the trains and tracks are his, and he prefers his trains to "masuk tunnel dulu, baru boleh wheeeeee".

Apart from home-keeping and freelance work, there’s the planning of meals and cooking. Not a super-easy task for a mommy whose 'masakan database' is not big enough to begin with. *blush*
But I’m happy to say that work on extending the database is currently ongoing, and more data recipes are being uploaded, and updated on a weekly basis. As I am typing this entry, g00gle is helping to search for a new quick & easy way to prepare a yummy chicken dish for tomorrow's lunch. hee hee hee.

And of course, things get much much 'trickier' when the other parent goes outstation for days (which happens quite often nowadays, unfortunately). Goes without saying-lah, this one. Ooohhh… the responsibilities, the drama, the dilemma. Mencabar sungguh.

I haven’t had the luxury to read either, unlike that time. I started Life is an Open Secret, I think sometime mid of January, and have not finished reading it yet, and it’s not even a huge book!



So if you don’t see me around often, you’d know why. I always planned to visit you folks, but I’d end up having to do something else. *sigh* Sometimes I’d manage to steal time to read your entries, and leave a comment or two. But more often than not, I’d be a silent visitor or reader. It’s not my original intention though. Y’all know how much I love you, kan? kan? kan? :)

Errr… do I sound like I’m complaining about not having the chance to feel bored? Ooopps!! :P

Posted on Wednesday, February 6, 2008 at 12:12 AM by tony
hope you are feeling fine FG!
Posted on Wednesday, February 6, 2008 at 05:23 AM by futuredoc
ada dlm buku sis zabrina tu about being busy.. it's not that you're busy that matters but WHY you are busy! :)

yeyy to not being bored!

Posted on Wednesday, February 6, 2008 at 09:59 AM by lana
sapa kata SAHM tu relax kan? lagi busy me think. tabik!!
Posted on Wednesday, February 6, 2008 at 11:04 AM by ondeonde
is really a good book!

you read one story per day pun okay tu...

being at home you get to see all the nitty-gritty things that you haven't had a chance to see while you are working and since you are at home almost 24/7, that nitty gritty needs to be dealt there and then, so mana ada masa nak buat benda lain kan? Kalau kerja tu can close one eye lah.


The other half yang semakin busy means more income betoi dak? so in future, insyaAllah there's no more dealing with deadlines!
Posted on Wednesday, February 6, 2008 at 02:33 PM by zan
ditto OO, i think you'r looking at every details kat rumah...i always think duk rumah busy, manalah ada masa nak lepak2 esp when other half outstation..susah woo..

pat famy's back...u've been doing great :)
Posted on Wednesday, February 6, 2008 at 09:22 PM by oflionandbear
tp blm abis lg.

hehe...

yup agree with you, stay at home is not relaxing either.
lots and lots of chores to be settled.

psstt..wht's tht freelancing job u r doing now. care to share?
*wink*
Posted on Monday, February 11, 2008 at 01:30 PM by mosh
heh! it takes a woman to be all that. no man is woman enough to handle all those simultaneously, i'd have to admit :)
Posted on Monday, February 11, 2008 at 10:05 PM by famygirl
tony: thanks. i'm ok, tony. just feeling a bit overwhelmed (in a good way) :)

aliya: yayyy for sibukness! you know what, i have not even reached that chapter you mentioned hee hee

lana: ya mmg sentiasa occupied :)

ondeonde: mmg cannot close one eye sebab takde excuse! re: Life is an Open Secret, at the rate i'm going, i think seminggu baca satu cerita hahaha
and thank you for reminding about the rezeki when the other half goes outstation. kadang-kadang dok complain pok-pek-pok-pek, terlupa that sebenarnya Allah bagi rezeki tu.

zan: thank you. and i would like to pat YOUR back for preservering at work during challenging times (and customers) insyaAllah kita ketemu for that lunch date

olab: haha samalah kita, but i think you akan abis baca dulu :P
the freelance work involves translation. maybe i'll write abt it someday

mosh: you think i can become one of the hero wanita in Her0es? nak jadi Superwoman belum cukup training lagi lah hee hee

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